My cousin lives with her lesbian partner. Am I a bigot for feeling uncomfortable around them?
The short answer
No. They are acting in a way you know offends God, so discomfort is natural, and it is right to judge behavior. The Church calls us to accept such persons with respect, compassion and sensitivity, but teaches that homosexual acts can never be approved.
By acting on their homosexuality, your cousin and her partner are doing something you know offends God. How could that not make you uncomfortable? This is not bigotry. It is perfectly fine, even necessary, to judge behavior and to feel uncomfortable around people whose behavior you know to be immoral.
The Catechism teaches that homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered and can under no circumstances be approved (CCC 2357). It also calls us to accept persons with homosexual tendencies with respect, compassion and sensitivity (CCC 2358).
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